“You are not perfect at anything …
except at being you.
You are perfectly made, however, for the life and work
you are here to do in your life-time. . . “
So this guide to discovering you, your Passions and Purpose,
and designing the Life Path only You can do is written for you —
It is for you who feels the simultaneous excitement, confusion, and freezing fear brought by the myriad decisions before you as you think of the Life and living you build day by day, moment by moment, as you live. It is what you do in this moment that makes your dream made tangible in this world. It’s how you fill this moment that reveals your essential Being in this world.
It’s how you fill this moment
that reveals your essential Being in this world.
The possibilities for how any of us spend our time here on Earth, and how we put into service our energy, talents — the choices of what to make of ourselves — are indeed endless. Such choices are limited only by a combination of imagination, self-confidence and sheer courage to meet our own Self in the process. There is not a circumstance that limits the possibility of becoming exactly who we each dream to be, as it is only the actions of each moment that define each of us, revealing our Spirit.
This is how my book begins. . .
And I wrote it for you.
There is not a circumstance that limits
the possibility of becoming
exactly who we each dream to be . . .
Like any work, it was written for its author as well.
I wrote it when feeling particularly lost, at a crossroads in life: children were grown and going, 24-years of marriage collapsing under the weight of separate careers, and my life path ahead totally unknown. Would I return to the busy life of international journalism, having now successfully guided not just my offspring onto their own springboards and to lives they were loving but many of their friends as well?
Or, well, exactly what would I do to somehow combine my love of helping others discover their talents and passions and also bear Truth and Witness to the brilliance of those around me as they sought encouragement? What exactly was a Vocation anyway . . . and does it pay the bills?
I was sitting alone in an old stable-room turned into dismal yet neutral hotel room. You know the kind — the windows were a little too high to look out, and revealed only the sky from the little desk pressed against the wall under them. Although I imagined the horses that used to bed in the room, for comfort if anything, I found all I could see were the stars above the buildings of the stable-block. I wondered if the former residents, too, looked out this window for greener pastures to run in?
Then, as now all one could see
was a vast sky
full of stars:
Infinite and improbable possibility as a blanket
for the soul on a dark night.
With me on this particular evening was not the reassurance of a warm muzzle and sweet hay breath of a horse but instead a little square pad of sheets of paper.
Each little square was separate and not connected to the next save for the box in which they sat. I took one, curious to see what note I could write to my Self, looking for guidance.
Instead I took one then another and found a whole list of questions download through me onto each of these little sheets of paper. Well, the little 3 by 3 squares were connected — by a guide leading me to my purpose and passion — as the questions, simply questions that I was to answer, guided me to write down my dreams, longings, plans, abilities and things I cared about. Suddenly it was all on paper. It was a map of my soul’s purpose and the squares became the stepping-stones to living this life-time here: On Purpose and On Task.
On Purpose and On Task.
This is what the World — this World of breathtaking beauty and piercing hurts — needs each of us to be. On Purpose and On Task, being as excellent as each of us can be at using the gifts and talents we carry as tools of our expression in our life-times here. To do what? To do the Work we are each here to do; and if in doubt of what that might be, then to follow our yearnings and create as much beauty as is possible.
So if you, too, are feeling lost at this particular cross-roads, look up at the sky. Take a deep breath. Maybe there’s something here, or in my book or at a workshop that might help you. I hope so! For a quick start, Take a look at the page Questions where I excerpt some of my book. There you can fill in the blanks of your soul as you discover or rediscover your dreams, your talents, your passions, your magic and remember how to be the Sovereign of your time here on Earth.
My book, Here You Begin, is being published by Chesterton & Davies, Ltd. It should be out any week.
To do what?
To guide you to discover and do the Work
you are here to do;
And if in doubt of what that might be, then it is a guide to follow your yearnings to create as much beauty
as is possible while you are here
in the way only you can.
What you can do and who you are is greatly needed in this world.
In the meantime, I’ll post a few of the questions from my book here … maybe you will want to pre-order the book via the publisher at the link on the right!! Or maybe you’ll want to try it out here a bit first.
I also offer personal coaching in finding your path and you OP/OT as well as workshops where we gather in beautiful places to go through the exploration together as well as take a keen look at the resistance felt or at the hurdles to what is stopping any of us from being our best Self. And then we walk around them together. Dates on these to come but plans are for one to be held near you very soon.
If you have a group you’d like me to talk to — whether your friends or church group, your teen’s school or a job-search shelter for the many of us out of work and hurting just now, contact me! As a journalist I found that asking questions proved to be the quickest and easiest way to discovering the obvious truth; in doing so with a gentle hand to hold, it re-ignites the fire of our souls to be remembered and put to use.
In the meantime, come back for a question of the day, week, month or set up a private coaching session with me. You can do so through the links at the right!
Until we connect, remember: You and your gifts are needed in this world!
Believing in You,